Hell, how many times have people never found a date in their area and gone to another community and found love there?This would be the part where I compare going to another state to find love to interracial dating, but I’m going to just let the obvious bridge itself. Your Parent’s Advice Is Gonna Fail Most Of The Time As It’s 2016 If I can show any level of mercy towards those Meninist and Red Pill guys, it’s that while I don’t agree with their message or their methods for spreading it, I do kind of understand where they’re coming from on one level: dating in this day and age doesn’t make sense when you approach it with all of the knowledge and advice that most of us grew up receiving. One of the main staples of a lot of bitter guys about dating is that girls don’t seem to like the nice guy but go for the asshole, but the honest truth is that it’s really not that complicated.I know plenty of black women in interracial relationships and if they’re happy and aren’t a dick about it, I’m happy for them.But once someone starts using phrases like “negro bed wench”, I stop listening. Truth is, for a lot of people, sometimes to find love you have to go outside of your community and really there’s no shame in that.
Can’t have honesty without respect, and if you don’t respect someone enough to be honest with them, why are you even trying to date them in the first place? Find a person you’re unbelievably jazzed about dating, not someone you could live without.
It sucks to try to navigate the world of blurred lines between “labels”, “friends with benefits”, “casual”, and “kind of exclusive.” It sucks to feel confused all the time about where you really stand.
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However, as long as they aren’t saying things like “All black guys are thugs” or “All black women are mean and demanding” or the like; it’s all good.
Also, if you’re in an interracial relationship, it’s for the best to ignore the “you’re a traitor to your race” stuff.