) ;-)If they don't want to meet you on that first date they won't (even if they promised to the highest heavens that they would.) So if she's showed up then chances are she wants something to work out with you.
Give her (and you) the best possible chance to make it happen: Grab a copy of The Art of The Date and other goodies that will prepare you for that meet up.
You can even check out Redpole Q's first date tips on how to make your first dates among the best first dates for you and her.
;-)Rest assured that you control the evening, and that's because you control this: This is one of the most important first date tips.Ideally you'd want to make her feel • intrigue • adventure • sensuality So how can you do that with where you take her?I recommend taking her somewhere that ideally • shows a part of who you are • is somewhere that no one has probably taken her before (and is safe enough) • can give you the chance to be together…alone…and where the mood can be more..sensual.You should dress to impress, not only for your image, but for hers too.This means leaving your wrinkled board shorts and sweaty baseball cap at home, and putting on some nice trousers/jeans and a shirt. A clean-shaven face and proper grooming goes a long way when dating in Thailand.Your job is to use these first date tips and make her feel • comfortable and safe with you • attracted to you • …lust for you…Do you know how to do that?If not check out these 3 dating tips for shy guys and why most other shy guy dating tips won't work.I’m surprised at how biased the stories of Thai women are.Don’t get me wrong, we’ve all had our fair share of bad dating experiences in Thailand, but it’s no different here than it is back home.I've been on dating a beautiful Mongol woman once Instead, I made the mistake of taking her to a fancy restaurant. My 'friend' who took her to a fun sandwich shop (you could put your feet in sand) and then a hookah bar. He followed the these practical tips for a first date and made it happen.Since I portrayed myself as "nice and safe" when I went for the kiss I got rejected. Because I set the expectations that she would be my nice girlfriend. Afterwards when he took her to his place they made love. It gave her adventure and intrigue (which was what she wanted.) She didn't want the safe boring fancy dinner. Avoid these bad first dates and make your evening work out.