Whenever you hear about men dating older women, it's often talked about like it's a way to "mix things up" sexually. In this week's Sex Talk Realness, spoke with three men about what it's like to love sleeping with much older women in a world that tries to make it seem like that's a rarity. I love dating in general, but I feel like older woman just have more to offer.
Rarely do you hear about men who specifically want to sleep with women 15 years older than them as more than just a passing Mrs. They have experience that is more valuable than anything.
Make no mistake — older women are looking for men, not boys. Nothing is more attractive to her than a young guy who can fill her needs as a man and in the sack. Part of the turn-on of an older woman is her intellect and accomplishments.
But you’re in luck — she’s going to be attracted to you before you even open your mouth. It’s going to end eventually, so don’t talk about a relationship with her. Don’t talk about your feelings and emotions and how you’re falling for her unless she does it first. She’s looking to enjoy herself because most of the men in her age range are not in the physical shape she desires and are already broken and destroyed. In order to succeed, she probably had to be smarter than the men around her.
Man C: Sexually, I was surprised by her openness to experiment and surprised that there was no stigma about oral sex.Even if she’s attracted to you, most older women will feel some guilt about your age.Ignore it and move forward as if she’s giving you the green light. If she really wants you to stop pursuing her, she will not be shy about it.You need to show her you’re mature and not some school boy just looking for a quick sexual experience to run and tell your friends about. You need to be able to hold your end of a conversation.You don’t need to tell her you’re older than your years, but you do need to act like a man. Yes, she wants you to tell her how hot she is, but she also wants to talk to you over dinner, during a walk, or lying in bed after you’ve made love.They don't really know what they want and are still finding their way. With girls my own age, we only had sex a few times a month.Man A: Every lady I meet is a new chapter in my life. Now I have sex nearly every time I go on a date, which is amazing. I just follow directions given, which puts much less pressure on me. Society isn't as used to seeing it as we'd like them to be. Man B: Older women know what they want, so I don't have to guess.Previously, I had married a woman who did not like returning the favor, if you know what I mean. Some men are genuine guys who just like dating older woman.There's nothing wrong with two consensual adults being serious together or playing around.