There's no taking off hats or courting through invitations. You probably thought you’d meet a guy at a bar and that he’d ask for your number.You probably thought you'd be on your way to dinner next week.But for the select few who didn’t teach them how to properly court a woman, well, shame on you.Shame on you for not teaching them how to properly approach a woman.Because if we don’t do it, bars will soon be exactly like those middle school dances: boys on one side, girls on the other. Well, for years they’ve been raised by their mamas, the women who told them they were the best thing God created on this earth.For years, they’ve been given everything on a silver platter -- up until the end of college when they were picking up women who just threw up their jungle juice. This isn’t to discredit the generation of mothers before us who raised the myriad of young men we’re dealing with today.They aren’t going to catch your eye and spend all night convincing you why you should be with them. It’s said that the male ego is as fragile as a woman’s heart and unfortunately for women, men won’t take the chance of letting it shatter.While women willingly put themselves out there, men stand back, scared of the tiniest bruise on their overinflated self-image. We must put ourselves out there and risk rejection.
Men, on the other hand, always seem to be waiting for something better.
Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in humans whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship or marriage.
It is a form of courtship, consisting of social activities done by the couple, either alone or with others.
We’re dealing with a new breed of men here and it’s not the kind we grew up dreaming about.
It's the want-what-I-want-but-don't-know-how-to-get-it type; it's the sweet and cuddly mama's boys who grow up terrified of making the first move; it's the guys who have so much to say but don't know how to say it. We’re left playing both sides of the game because they’ve simply forgotten how to play. They want the girl who’s hard to get, but they don’t know how to get her. We must tell them what they want if we’re to get anywhere close to the goals we had for ourselves.